Case Studies
A woman who was unfairly dismissed from her job after her male employer shouted that "she must be on her menopause" has been awarded £20,000.
Leigh Best, 54, was dismissed as a sales assistant for pet food retailer Embark on Raw, based near Billericay, Essex, for raising Covid-19 safety concerns, an employment tribunal found.
The tribunal ruled that she had been unfairly dismissed, harassed due to her age and sex, and victimised. The tribunal deemed Mr. Fletcher’s comments to be “unwanted, obtrusive and inappropriate questioning about whether or not she was menopausal.” This left her feeling “humiliated and mortified” by her treatment, it found. The panel further concluded “Mr Fletcher invaded the claimant’s privacy, broached a highly sensitive topic for her and acted tactlessly.”
The total amount she was awarded at the East London Hearing Centre was £20,057.74. This included £680 for loss of wages, a further £4,000 for harassment and victimisation, as well as £10,000 in relation to unlawful detriment.
Embark on Raw is based at Whitesbridge Farm Industrial Estate, near Billericay, Essex. Mrs Best was employed by the company, which sells raw food for cats and dogs, from 29 January 2020 until 11 May that year, and was co-directed by husband and wife, David and Andrea Fletcher.
The tribunal hearing heard Mr Fletcher had shouted that “she must be on her menopause” on 20th March 2020 during an argument about a mix-up with orders.
A sum of £2,000 was awarded towards the harassment as it was found that Mrs Best was upset by Fletcher’s “unwanted, obtrusive and inappropriate questioning about whether or not she was menopausal”.
She said she found the subject “distressing and wished to avoid talking about it” and it was a “private matter”. Her dismissal was “flawed” and she was left “misinformed, humiliated and mortified by this treatment
Menopause Suicide: Bereaved husband urges men to spot mental health signs
12 November 2021
"You don't want to be where I am today" - David Salmon's wife Linda took her own life while going through the menopause
A bereaved husband has urged men to recognise the signs of mental health symptoms linked to the menopause.
Linda Salmon, 56, took her own life last April after her anxiety worsened during the Covid pandemic. Her husband David said he had not realised the menopause could cause suicidal thoughts.
Mr. Salmon, from Keighley, West Yorkshire, said: “The physical side of symptoms you might see, but the mental ones are hidden.”
He said a feature aired on the BBC’s Look North programme after his wife’s death led him to realise how the menopause could affect mental health.
“I didn’t know there were all these other symptoms,” he said. “I honestly thought the menopause was where you got a bit warm and had a few moods and then when I saw the programme highlighting suicide it all came together.” He believes he and his wife would have sought potentially life-saving help if they had known more about the link. Read More
Mr. Salmon believes had his wife sought help, she may not have taken her own life. When the national lockdown happened, mother-of-two Mrs. Salmon worked as a key worker in a supermarket, but felt anxious about possibly falling ill with Covid.
She was signed off work with anxiety and several days later she took her own life.
Mr. Salmon, who had been with Linda for 41 years, said he believed the menopause was a “big contribution” to her mental state and that worries about the pandemic had “pushed her over the edge”.
Mr. Salmon said he now wanted to help other partners and families spot symptoms so he can prevent others from suffering as he has.
“We need to talk about it and make people aware. It’s the mental side of it, not just the physical side,” he said.
“If you are in a similar situation, I would say help your wife, hold her hand, get her through it.
“You don’t want to be where I am today, nobody needs to do that.”